Frankly, the missionary position is the position least likely to bring a woman to climax.

But there is a subtle adjustment you can make that can increase your chances of having an orgasm: the coital alignment technique, or CAT. Have your partner move his entire body up about two inches. Your partner's pubic bone will rest on top of yours so that the base of his penis presses on your clitoris. This position provides continuous stimulation of your clitoris during intercourse, increasing your chances of having an orgasm.

Keep your panties on.

Back in high school, you probably had rules for how far you'd go: under the shirt, over the pants, and so on. Well, the teenage you was on to something. "It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other over your underwear, teasing and stroking through the fabric," says sex coach Patti Britton, Ph.D. "You're building up the anticipation, so when you finally do have skin-on-skin contact, it'll be that much more explosive and exciting."

Share a passionate 10-second kiss every single day. A lot of couples keep having sex but stop really kissing. And that's a shame, because it's such a wonderful, intimate act. So just go up and lay one on him. Instantly, you'll feel passionate instead of platonic. What a rush!

Before you get it on, take a bath together. Bring out the candles and fluffy towels, then put two drops of patchouli oil, three drops of sandalwood oil, and three drops of lavender oil into your bathwater. Patchouli and sandalwood are awakens sensuality, and lavender induces relaxation. The combination of scents and warm-water sensations will completely prime your bodies — and minds.

Try one of these outfits since they'll help you get in the moment. If you’re feeling like a flirty, girlie tease, put on a white cotton undie set or sexy lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail, or don a schoolgirl-like plaid miniskirt with an oxford shirt tied above your navel. To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and nails. Outfits not only help you get in the moment, they also give him a visual turn-on and inspiration.

Look at yourself naked in a full-length mirror for five minutes a day and focus on what you love about your body. If this feels awkward, get ready or blow out your hair while standing naked in front of the mirror. By getting used to your unique shape, you'll gain confidence that will naturally spill over into your sex life and make you twice as enticing to your guy!

Try Finger-Food Foreplay

Have a romantic dinner without utensils so you can feed each other. There's something sensual about placing food in your partner's mouth. After a meal like this, serve yourself for dessert.

Strut Your Stuff

The next time you go out with your man, wear your sexiest outfit. Sometimes you have to remind your guy that you're a prize, not an appendage. It really turns most guys on to know they have someone other men want to be with. And it can be a tremendous ego boost for you, too. When you feel sexy, you are sexy. Once you return home from your diva-date, you won't be able to keep your hands off each other.

Play Up His Deep Pockets

When he's least expecting it, tell your man you need some change. Then stick your hand in his pocket and touch his penis through the fabric, pretending that you're really digging around for that coinage you need. When he's good and hard, whisper something in his ear like, "Is that a roll of quarters in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?" He'll practically bust out of his pants.

Marriage is a crazy thing.  Sometimes it’s the bedrock of your life and sometimes you really have to scramble to keep it from going off the rails.  It makes you kinder and wiser.  It makes you quirky and weird – in the best possible way.  A good marriage is wonderful, while a bad one is torturous.  Here are 100 tips (for both spouses) for keeping a marriage happy:

1. First and foremost, marry the person who is right in both your heart and your brain.
2. Look at things from their perspective.
3. Do something romantic on a random Tuesday.
4. Give compliments often.
5. Volunteer to do a chore that they usually do.
6. Say ‘I love you’ often and when they least expect it.
7. Send a cheeky text message at an unexpected time.
8. Rub things – feet, neck, back, etc. (you with your filthy thoughts!)
9. Hug and kiss hello and goodbye, good morning and good night.
10. When you’re angry, put a 5-second delay between your brain and your mouth.
11. Say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’.
12. Do things they like to do sometimes – even if it’s not your favorite.
13. Make the effort to remember special occasions.
14. Ask how their day was and really listen to the answer.
15. Make all big decisions together.
16. Don’t allow anyone to come between you.
17. Play fair.
18. Initiate sex – especially if you usually don’t.
19. Beware of falling into a rut.  Shake things up a little.
20. Always keep dating (no matter how long you’ve been married).
21. Apologize to each other after a disagreement.
22. Accept their apology and let it go.  Don’t keep a running list of misdeeds.
23. Treat them as your partner, not your boss or your child.
24. Touch feet under the covers.
25. Put your relationship above all else.
26. Laugh often.
27. Keep their secrets.
28. Show pride in their accomplishments.
29. Show compassion for their weaknesses.
30. Play their favorite music.
31. Keep your expectations of yourself and your partner high, but reasonable.
32. Celebrate milestones (even obscure ones).
33. Watch each others’ back.
34. Compliment them to others.
35. Be supportive of their career.
36. Don’t even think about divorce unless it’s really over.
37. Swallow your complaints about their family.
38. Discuss problems outside the heat of the argument.
39. When times get tough, cling to each other.
40. Trust.
41. Be worthy of trust.
42. Admit when you’re wrong.
43. Be self-sufficient, unless there’s a legitimate reason otherwise.
44. Get on the same page about money.
45. Don’t let the kids play you against each other.
46. Do at least your share of the work.
47. Be considerate – small niceties matter.
48. Take a couple’s retreat when you start to feel disconnected.
49. Be patient.
50. Be respectful.
51. Be honest.
52. Communicate more.
53. Weather the storm together.
54. Cook their favorite foods.
55. Snuggle up.
56. Give them a little tush pinch in the kitchen.
57. No name calling – ever.
58. When you feel wronged, say so.
59. Try something new together.
60. Encourage them to follow their dreams.
61. Sacrifice without begrudging.
62. Let them take care of you.  Everyone needs to be needed.
63. Volunteer for a cause you both believe in.
64. Don’t take yourself so seriously.
65. Give them their space when they need it.
66. Remember what really matters and let go of the minutiae.
67. Tell them what makes you happy.
68. Focus on romance as much now as you did in the beginning.
69. Take excellent care of yourself.
70. Be supportive of their hobbies, even if you think they’re silly.
71. Get out into nature together.
72. Be their home base.
73. Anticipate what they want and do it before they ask.
74. Always give them the benefit of the doubt.
75. Get help if you need it.
76. Get all dolled up for them.
77. Have fun with other couples.
78. Allow them their friendships away from you.
79. Keep criticism fair, civil and constructive.
80. Make your home a haven for both of you.
81. Travel to new places together.
82. Never criticize in public.
83. Avoid ‘always’ and ‘never’ in an argument.
84. Plan surprises.
85. Turn off phones, e-mail, texts, etc. when you’re out together.
86. Be the spouse at their work functions.
87. Become regulars at your favorite restaurant.
88. Relationships take work – do the work.
89. If things are getting done, don’t worry about having them done your way.
90. Honestly believe that your relationship is going to last.
91. Respect their privacy.
92. Anything involving personal hygiene should be done in private. (Not attractive.)
93. Take care of them when they’re sick.
94. Take their side.
95. Cheer them up.
96. Cheer them on.
97. Remember the good times fondly and let the tough times fade.
98. Acknowledge out loud that your life is good thanks to them.
99. Golden rule – if you’re both looking out for each others’ best interests, everyone wins.
100. Enjoy each other!